Thursday, July 31, 2014

Updates on the roving photographer

We recently bought a new little digital camera that Beatrice loves to hold it while riding in the car and use to capture what fancies her inside and out.  I just downloaded it and found some images from around town and during a recent trip to Worcester, MA that made me smile.  Meanwhile, I've been meaning to write for a couple months now about some of the "latest and greatest" about Beatrice, so I'll intermingle those facts with her photographs.  




Her favorite color is now gray. She has learned what a "selfie" is and enjoys taking them.


Big news....DONE with pull-ups!  Even on vacation, even with varying bedtimes, etc. DONE! Naps are pretty much done too, unless we're in the car for long periods of time.


She is sleeping in, a bit anyway, some mornings until 7:30-8:00.  Huge change for this girl, and for me.

She's had a growth spurt, heading toward 40 lbs. and many pants are too short and shoes have been outgrown.


She has a new word in her vocabulary.  "No."  Said pretty instantly and calmly to many of my "requests."  Guess "6" is when she begins to spread her wings a bit.


But spread as she may, she's still a total Mama's Girl.  100%.  She told me the other day she wished I could grow more because then I could still hold her. (I still can, but walking while holding her is really hard).


She still has very different public and home personas, still appearing scared, shy, or aloof when first meeting new people/situations.


Her career choice has changed.  At 6.2, she wants to be "a swim teacher."  I reminded her she may want to actually learn to swim first before deciding, but that's a detail....


She has one very slightly wiggly tooth at the bottom, but none lost yet.  They are spacing out though so I know her jaw is growing.


She fights allergies pretty consistently and now takes Claritin every single morning.  She even asks for it if I forget, though she hates the taste of it. Without it she clears her throat a lot, gets hives from time to time, and has terribly watery eyes.  


We've been doing some house changes and we finally got rid of the changing table in the bathroom.  It is now a toy shelf in our new guest room/toy room, which is so wonderful to have. We've also moved 90% of her toys upstairs so our main floor looks very "adult."  Yesterday I looked around and felt sad.

Beatrice inherited a beautiful big old doll house from my aunt/godmother and she spends hours playing in it.  She talks like an Italian, in that she often tilts her head a lot and uses her hands and arms for emphasis. 

She's taken to saying "I love you."  A lot.  Generally it's the first thing out of her mouth in the morning.  Often it's followed by "like crazy cakes" or "miss Michelle Foronda!"


She'll ask for my hand and then squeeze it three times, once for each word of "I love you."  It's a tradition I had with my mom and taught it to Bea years ago but only now does she really initiate it.


She made up a new version of rock/paper/scissors.  It's called APPLE/BANANA/PEAR.  Apple is made with a tight fist, Banana is a flat outstretched hand, and for Pear you make a fist but then stick up your middle finger straight and tall.  It's Anthony's and my new favorite game.  We both always shoot PEAR for some reason.  Try it.  It's really, really fun.


She is a visual and kinesthetic learner, not auditory.  She loves watching My Little Pony episodes on You Tube and half the time they're in German or Spanish and she could care less.  She can tell you with amazing detail the plot of a story about a book she hasn't read a word of simply from the illustrations.

She's spending the week, 9-4 each day, at Audubon camp in Pomfret and having a blast.

Each day they hike 2-4 miles and tomorrow they're going on a field trip to the beach:


and, most significantly, at least to me, here is Bea reading as we arrived at camp yesterday  morning.  We've been reading every single day for at least 15 minutes and she has improved so, so, so much.  I am so proud of how hard she works at this skill which has not been easy for her at all.  Rock star!




Saturday, July 26, 2014

A Summer Week: Olivia, Visit to my alma mater, Ethan & Brandon, and Buttonwood Farm


What a relaxingly busy week this was!  After Monday's playdate with Samm, Tuesday's schedule included a piano lesson, Mad Science class at the library (where Bea made molecules out of toothpicks and mini marshmallows) a trip to Funky Monkey's, Bea's favorite local thrift shop (where I scored $5 brand new soccer cleats) and lots of hanging out at home, plus a visit to Alexander's Lake for a swim. John and J.J. came for dinner and it was fun to see them and talk more about the beautiful wedding.  

On Wednesday, Louise took Bea and met up with my nephew Shawn and his daughter Olivia and the girls went to a craft class at Michael's and then a playdate at Owen Bell.  Beatrice doesn't get to see her often, but sure loves her time with my 4-year old grandniece!




After dinner we had a spontaneous trip back to the lake to cool off, and the Durands popped by unexpectedly so they joined us!



 The following two photos are "Bea's picks" as she watched me choosing recent photos for this post.   She likes this shot and wanted me to show her how to change the color.  She really likes the word "sepia,"

and, a budding photographer, she insisted we take a picture of yesterday's breakfast, eggs, rice, and Chinese sausage:



On Thursday, we headed to UConn to their new bookstore.  We stopped first at Dog Lane Cafe and had some breakfast:

Then off to the bookstore!  I offered to take Beatrice to a park, a museum, the Ecotarium, a Science center....all she wanted was a bookstore, so that was where we went:


In her glory...


Outside the dorm I lived in 1987-1989, Lester E. Shippee Hall:


Then we roamed across the street to Mirror Lake:



She had fun photographing, and then being  chased by, the ducks:




After a ride around campus and a visit to the horse barn, we stopped at the dairy bar to get a taste of some Husky Tracks ice cream. On the way out we gave a high five to Jonathan! Great day.


It had been far too long since we'd seen the Schultzes, so we had a blast at Quaddick lake with them Friday and are looking forward to meeting them again today for Ethan's 5-year old birthday party!



3-year old Brandon had trouble keeping up with the big kids, so he hung out with his mom:

Last night, we had our 4th annual trip to Buttonwood farm for ice cream and sunflower viewing.  It is always such a gorgeous spot in the evening, a photographer's dream.





          No one said modeling was easy.  I love this "would you just take the picture already????" face!





Tuesday, July 22, 2014

Samm

Beatrice's best buddy from school this year was Samm. She's the number one person she wanted at her birthday party, the person she has spoken about seeing all summer, the friend she wanted to send a postcard to from Maryland.  Yesterday we had a playdate at the Splashpad with Samm and the friends were so happy to be together:

Samm's the kind of friend who holds you close to help you be brave and try something you've been too scared to do...stand under THE BUCKET!



They ran and squealed and played and giggled and interrupted each other constantly and it was perfect 6-year old girl fun!

Monday, July 21, 2014

Flower Girl, take 2

Two years to the day from being a flower girl at David & Meaghan's wedding in Tuscany, Beatrice had the honor of being flower girl for his sister Mary Elizabeth and her wedding to Sam.  It was a local wedding, so unfortunately we didn't get to fly anywhere exotic or stay in a romantic historical villa, but the place they chose 5 miles from our house felt like a French mansion. After starting the day by throwing up her breakfast all over me (old orange juice, I think), we laid very low until heading out the door in the afternoon, hair done but not dressed:


Here's the outside of the incredible mansion:


I put her dress on and she walked away, and I quickly snapped a photo, somehow seeing many years flash ahead of me in a moment:


A couple hours ago, she and Venus, the "head flower girl" and best childhood friend of ME scattered petals down the aisle:




Bea took her job very seriously (and I think her belly was grumbling):

One of the beautiful brides making the debut with my dear friends John and Mary Jane.  I have been part of this girl's life since she was just about walking and it was quite awesome seeing her walk down the aisle, so happy and so in love:

The readings and vows were very personal, very intense, and perfectly chosen:




Here are my three "babies" once again who I babysat for so often so long ago, all grown up and leading beautiful lives as adults.  So proud and so happy for each of them:

My sweet , somewhat weak-feeling girl did her job so very well:


3 out of 4 of the old Woodstock Elementary School gang!

Meanwhile, she conked out in the car at 10:30 p.m. and went to sleep in her braids and her sunflower dress.  I snapped this of her moments after she awoke at 7:30 the next morning.  Couldn't resist!